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On The Money –
A Financial Wellness Series

On The Money –
A Financial Wellness Series

Financial Wellness Series: Teaching Your Kids About Money

You want to get your kids started on the right financial path, but where do you even begin?

Think of it like a video game: you're giving them the cheat codes early. Teaching kids about money isn't just about saving for a rainy day; it's about giving them the tools to understand how money works in the real world. By introducing concepts like earning, saving, and spending, you're helping them build a foundation of financial independence that'll pay dividends for their whole life. You're setting them up to be financially smart adults who can make confident decisions and avoid common money traps.

So, how do you do it? Start with the basics. You can encourage them to save by setting a fun goal, like a new toy or video game. Give them a chance to earn money through chores and then teach them how to budget with a simple method, like the Spend, Save, Share approach.

Leading by example is key, so make sure you're showing them your own good habits. As they get older, you can level up the lessons by introducing more advanced concepts, like what interest is or how investing works.

Basic Savings

A savings account is a great start to teaching your child some of the basics of money management. Building smart money habits at a young age helps kids gain valuable skills that set them up for success as they grow.

At Redstone, we encourage the popular Spend, Save, Share method. Every time money is received, it's divided among the three containers according to a chosen percentage, typically 50% spend, 30% save, 20% share.

Spend

Everyone spends money; the key is to teach your child how to spend wisely. Involve your child while out shopping. Include them in making spending decisions and help them understand the reasons behind these choices.

Save

Saving is important. Talk to your child about budgets and encourage them to create their own. Share with them the reasons to save for the future. Help them understand that even though you can’t buy everything you want, saving and planning for a future goal is rewarding.

Share

Sharing with those less fortunate is fulfilling and valuable. Let your child find a charity they like and help them find ways to donate time, money, and resources to help others.

Youth Checking

Around the age of 13, your child’s financial training wheels are ready to come off. Most banks will let you open them their own checking account and debit card, which is critical for their financial fluency. This is the official transition from their Spend, Save, Share jars to real-world money management.

Accounts like Redstone’s Safeguard Checking are designed with kids and parents in mind. The debit card is a tool for learning, not debt – it helps them manage their own money without the risk of racking up overdraft fees. For those pivotal 13- to 15-year-old years, parents are a mandatory joint owner. This gives you full visibility and control to guide their first big financial moves – direct deposits from a summer job, their first online purchase, or navigating a return. While older teens (16+) technically could go solo, keeping a joint owner on the account is strongly recommended. You're giving them the independence they crave while still being the backup they need for big decisions or emergencies.

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Payment Apps

Payment apps, like Venmo, Paypal, and Cashapp, are a convenient way to send and receive money, but be careful about keeping money in them. That balance sitting in your non-bank payment app is not guaranteed to be safe the same way your bank money is.

Traditional checking, savings, or money market accounts at an actual bank or credit union are federally insured by the FDIC or NCUA up to $250,000. This is the safety net. If your bank somehow fails, you still get your money back.

Non-bank payment apps don't hold deposits directly. That money might not be sitting in an insured account. If the payment company itself fails (like, if Venmo went bankrupt), your money could be considered part of the company's assets and could be lost or tied up for years in bankruptcy court. It’s a huge risk for zero reward.

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Make Financial Education Fun

If you want your teen to learn about money without giving you an eye-roll, ditch the dusty textbook. The Zogo app makes financial education gamified, low-effort, and immediately rewarding. Zogo (found inside online banking or the mobile app) is basically a Duolingo-style approach to personal finance. It turns complex topics like budgeting, saving, and even investing into bite-sized, mobile-first lessons.

This isn't just about learning; it's about earning. They complete the interactive challenges and quizzes to rack up points, which they can redeem for actual gift cards to places like Amazon, Target, and Starbucks. It literally pays them to learn!

By leveling up in Zogo, they're building the foundation for sound financial decisions, meaning you'll spend less time stressing about their future 401(k) and more time enjoying the peace of knowing they're financially competent. It's a win-win for their long-term stability and your short-term sanity.

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Money Skills by Age

Financial literacy is a marathon, not a sprint. Start early, stay consistent, and guide your kids toward independence to help them form habits that will set them up for lifelong financial success. Having regular conversations about managing money as they grow is the best way to ensure a strong financial future for your kid.

Starting the Cash Conversation (Ages 3-5)

Plant the seed. Keep it super basic – money is a thing you exchange for other things.

  • Show them coins and bills. Teach them the names and how to count them.
  • Play Store. Use pretend play to model buying and selling.
  • Save in a piggy bank. The habit of setting money aside is a valuable lesson to teach early.

From Needs to Wants (Ages 6-10)

Transition to building habits and connecting effort to cash flow. Open a savings account now so they can see that money actually grows (the magic of interest!).

  • Allowance. Earning money by doing simple chores teaches the connection between work and money.
  • Needs vs Wants. Discuss the difference between a need (food, clothes) and a want (a toy or video game). This is the foundation of budgeting.
  • Saving Jars. Use dedicated jars or envelopes to divide their money into three categories: Spend, Share, and Save.

Digital Dollars and Budgeting Basics (Ages 11-13)

Give more control and introduce the digital ecosystem. Consider opening a checking account you can both monitor.

  • Learning Digital Money. The world is cashless – walk them through online banking, digital wallets, and payment apps, emphasizing security and safe usage.
  • Budgeting. Teach them how to truly budget by balancing their immediate spending desires with their future savings goals.
  • How Banks Work. Explain the foundational concepts: savings accounts, how interest works, and why banks are the secure place to keep their money.

Coach, Don't Control (Ages 14-18)

Shift from financial provider to a trusted financial coach. The best teaching tool you have is leading by example and having regular, transparent conversations about money management.

  • Subscriptions. Make kids aware of bills and subscriptions (Netflix, gaming passes). They need to know how these recurring payments add up and why they must be factored into their budget.
  • Big Purchases. Talk about large expenses – a car, college, a major trip – and show them how to set a savings goal and create a plan that spans months, not days.
  • Next-Level Learning. Introduce responsible credit card use, break down what a credit score is, how interest rates work, and why they should never view borrowed money as "free money."

Teaching your kids about money is the ultimate life hack you can give them, empowering them with the confidence to navigate the real world. By starting these conversations and establishing good habits early on, you're not just creating savers – you're building the next generation of financially independent thinkers. Continue to lead by example and have open discussions – it's the best way to ensure your kids thrive on their financial journey.

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